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Yes, I am a glutton for punishment. Luckily this guy doesn't post every day...
Respectable Men Don't Use Contraceptives
Men want respect. Some men deserve more respect than others. Respectable men do not beg for sex. This is what you men should remember. Respectable men are non-contraceptive. Contraceptive males are called boys as they cater to the insecurities and whims of females.
And I was with him on the "Respectable men don't beg for sex" point. But contraception can be very respectable, when (shock, gasp!) women do not want to become pregnant.
Know that contraception is a female ploy. A man who agrees to contracepting is being played by the female. Whether the female is his wife, his girlfriend, his fubu, or a plain old prostitute.
Nice way to imply you think wives/girlfriends are some sort of fancy prostitute.
Contraception is a way females play russian roulette, it is a manner in which they choose the fathers of their children. A woman subconsciously chooses the father of her offspring by conveniently “forgetting” to put on that condom, by “forgetting” to take
her pills, by “forgetting” to put on her diaphragm.
Well, actually, some of us decide to also achieve it by only sleeping with the man we're married to. But even then, we aren't always trying to get pregnant.
A wife may have chosen to marry a man as her legal husband. But her body language, her reality shows she has in fact NOT chosen him to father her child when she chooses to have fake sex with him by using condoms on him.
Awww, do I detect someone who doesn't like wearing condoms?
And that's their choice. Not ours. But they are more than welcome to it, as long as it is something they choose.
Sometimes I think the metaphor of adam and eve was that Eve engaged Adam in contraception. The forbidden fruit is contraception.
This is one of the more original takes on it, but I notice we still get to blame the woman.
And from another post:
You see love is also hormonal and chemical. Your semen has hormones and chemicals that will make a woman love you. Inseminate them regularly and they will stick to you like glue.
I can't even work up a good mock.DV
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Date: 2008-04-29 02:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-04-29 02:45 am (UTC)Well, in the other post, he's envisioning a "life fund" for each child from the government...
DV
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Date: 2008-04-29 01:00 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-04-29 02:25 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-04-29 02:46 am (UTC)You think... ?
The forbidden fruit = contraceptives was kind of interesting, though.
DV
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Date: 2008-04-29 02:49 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-04-29 03:20 am (UTC)But we only want to have sex when we want to have children! /whackjob
Actually, though, the first thing that went through my head about the forbidden fruit deal was wondering what some in That Catholic Comm who did her thesis on the birth control issues would think of it...
Key word, sleep with him.
DV
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Date: 2008-04-29 03:33 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-04-29 05:28 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-04-29 02:40 pm (UTC)No, but is it working?
;)
DV
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Date: 2008-04-29 07:19 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-04-29 07:03 am (UTC)I am boggled. I am also certain he's against forcing men to pay child support.
She, after all, was willing to let him have the, "chance" to "father her children", so if he leaves her, well she got what she wanted.
Bugger that for a lark.
TK
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Date: 2008-04-30 12:06 am (UTC)I'm totally in agreement with your last.
DV
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Date: 2008-04-29 01:05 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-04-30 12:10 am (UTC)My work is making me need some sort of stress release valve.
DV
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Date: 2008-04-30 12:31 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-04-29 03:05 pm (UTC)IIRC the Magic Sperm method only works for James Bond. And he's a supernatural being, of course. (ObGoodSF: "The Jennifer Morgue," Charles Stross.
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Date: 2008-04-30 12:11 am (UTC)Well, usually when they use this argument, they pull out oxytocin as the "love hormone".
Shall we break out the appropriate chorus from Monty Python?
DV
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Date: 2008-04-29 05:29 pm (UTC)Are we talking about a male condom or female condom here? If it's the former, then the person is full of it.
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Date: 2008-04-30 12:13 am (UTC)Not sure, but one of his contentions is that a man would never use a condom unless forced to by an evil, contracepting, selfish woman.
But you're right, he is full of it.
DV
Silly fox!
Date: 2008-04-30 04:45 pm (UTC)And of course, they needn't use them after they're married either, if they find a woman who wants lots of children (rare, nowadays, but hey, no-one ever said life was going to be easy)
Heh.