desertvixen | (no subject) (Reply)

A rundown from FSTDT:

Aggressive Persuasion Can Be A Beautiful Thing

[...] Is a husband, pinning his wife down to have sex with her rape? What defines rape in a marriage?

When she says, "No."?

See, even then, I have a problem with it. A wife and husband are to give to each other of this. If a man is pinning her down, yet lovingly trying to... ehh it's too "grey". I hate it. It's of Satan,and the liberals are holding hands with Satan on this one.. destroy marriage with "rights" and villifying your spouse. Satanswants to break down the church and marriage. He wants us to think we don't need God, or each other....

The notion of marital rape. It's almost an oxymoron. It actually sounds like a litigous term used by 3rd Reich Femi-Nazi Women's Lib Czar's who hate God, burn flags, don't eat meat, and glorify same sex sexual relationships.

Disgusting.

Yes, it would be insensitive and unloving for a man to force his wife to do something sexual. If he took a gun or another inanimate object out and threatened her life, or her health, yes, that could be seen as rape. Yet, if he was aggressive in order to persuade her, I could see that as a wonderful thing. Wonderful? YES.. because that could be the answer to some dynamic in thier relationship. [...]

OK, so I'm probably not the only person reading this comment and going, What? I kept getting lost in it. They start making sense for two seconds, and then it gets weird again.

Bottom line: It's fine, as long you both enjoy the dynamic in your relationship being answered that way... and you have a safeword. Otherwise, it falls under the heading of "problem".

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Feeling Castrated

A man's point of view...

I can not speak for all, but a lot of men I know feel- pardon this expression- "castrated" in todays world. Even scientific studies show fish and men in the UK feminizing under the pollution of estrogenic compounds in the water supplies from the breakdown of wastes including primarily birth control (excreted in urine), pesticides, and soybean use (both estrogenic). Radical feminism, which is harmful to women, has been very effective at reducing the "manliness" of men as well. How often do we see men being portrayed in positive light anymore? On TV, the dad is always a buffoon kept alive by the wise wife. We have a total and systematic- even deliberate- breakdown of the family structure.

I hate to break it to this guy but... the majority of corporate heads allowing pollution and approving these TV shows where the dad is a buffoon with a hot wife are MEN. There is not a Super Secret Female Cabal Ruling The World. If there was, things would be different.

(whining about how he's accomplished, but can't get a good job)
Men have become soft, lazy, ineffective, and absent. The decline in manhood is natural based on the progression of sin permeating every aspect of our lives in a cause and effect sort of way. Look around- the 'metrosexual' or metro male is the image du jour. The manly guy who can use his hands, fix things, build things, etc. is marginalized. Pansy-boys are celebrated.

You know, I fail to understand this one. Maybe because I'm in the military, so I definitely still see PEOPLE who can do things being celebrated. There is more than one gender-specific way for people to be.

DV