In all fairness to http://www.andtheylivedhappilyeverafter.com

[desertvixen]

http://www.andtheylivedhappilyeverafter.com/15.htm

She also has an article defending same-sex marriage.

I admit that at first I was ambivalent about the issue, thinking that it was, perhaps, yet another attempt by a fringe group to redefine the institution of marriage to suit their particular circumstances, similar to the advocates of common law marriage.

But then I realized something. Same sex couples aren't trying to redefine marriage at all. They love it just the way it is. They simply want to be included in it, and allowed to share in the joy of it along with their heterosexual counterparts.

http://www.andtheylivedhappilyeverafter.com/45.htm

She also disagrees with the "Surrendered Wife" deal.

http://www.andtheylivedhappilyeverafter.com/53.htm

But then comes back to, "cutting off your long hair means you're going to divorce your spouse".

Women know how much men love their hair, and so when they cut it all off they are effectively cutting men off, from their beauty, from their attractiveness to them, from their love. It's a clear gesture of defiance, or dissatisfaction, or despair, a spiteful kind of emotional kick in the balls.

DV

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The "navigate the car" thing is the most concrete example. "Instead of saying, 'Brian, that's the exit to the mall,' when he's going to overshoot, you're supposed to be silent, surrendering to where he thinks the mall is. You're supposed to let him get further and further lost and frustrated and angry rather than telling him where the exit is and getting to your destination.

Since you don't ever speak your mind, he's miraculously supposed to come around and give you everything you want. I've no idea how that's supposed to work, but Doyle insists it's the inevitable fruit of this deception.

Passive-aggression, your key to a happy marriage. Shudder.