"Technical virginity is another thing that annoys me. Sex is more than vaginal penetration with an erect penis. If you're performing/recieving oral sex, you are having sex. If you're having anal sex, you are having sex. Fooling around, to me, is exactly that - fooling around."
I knew a girl when I was in college who thought that way. She was a "non-denominational" Christian who honestly seemed to believe that oral sex did not do anything to her virginity. She was also deeply concerned for my soul, since I was Catholic, and believed I needed to be baptized (for real this time) as soon as possible. Anyway, I think it was just like that for her, and she literally could not count the number of dudes she had gone down on. I had to break it to her that such was not the case.
I think she was one of those, unlike the woman at the top, who just couldn't make her sexuality and her religion line up, so she found a sort of middle ground. Which I guess is a nice coping mechanism, but still has to come up against reality eventually. There's no "saving yourself" when you've probably seen more wang than a male piss test proctor.
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Date: 2008-03-06 03:11 am (UTC)I knew a girl when I was in college who thought that way. She was a "non-denominational" Christian who honestly seemed to believe that oral sex did not do anything to her virginity. She was also deeply concerned for my soul, since I was Catholic, and believed I needed to be baptized (for real this time) as soon as possible. Anyway, I think it was just like that for her, and she literally could not count the number of dudes she had gone down on. I had to break it to her that such was not the case.
I think she was one of those, unlike the woman at the top, who just couldn't make her sexuality and her religion line up, so she found a sort of middle ground. Which I guess is a nice coping mechanism, but still has to come up against reality eventually. There's no "saving yourself" when you've probably seen more wang than a male piss test proctor.