desertvixen: (feminine intuition)
desertvixen ([personal profile] desertvixen) wrote2008-03-31 08:07 pm

[livejournal.com profile] tepintzin brought it to my attention

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23884819/

In a historic but little-noticed change in policy, the Army is allowing scores of husband-and-wife soldiers to live and sleep together in the war zone — a move aimed at preserving marriages, boosting morale and perhaps bolstering re-enlistment rates at a time when the military is struggling to fill its ranks five years into the fighting.

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Opinions?

Personally, for myself, I'd rather we deployed separately so that someone is here, providing stability for MV. Also, I think I would spend a lot of time worrying about whether or not we were presenting an image that would make people jealous. I also think the no-PDA rule would be very hard.

DV

[identity profile] kishiriadgr.livejournal.com 2008-04-01 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
The more I think about it, the more I think it's a bad idea. I think it's cruel towards the people whose spouses and partners aren't Army and thus not in Iraq. I can see it as more of a morale buster than booster.

Am cross-posting this comment to my own journal.

[identity profile] desert-vixen.livejournal.com 2008-04-01 02:46 am (UTC)(link)

I think the E-prince had the right of it.

Like I said, for the 2 of us, it would make me uncomfortable.

At the same time, we've never had the option, so I can't tell you what deploying together would be like.

DV